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6 shocking consequences of gossiping and spreading rumors


6 shocking consequences of gossiping and spreading rumors--


Nowadays gossiping and spreading rumors have become a part of many people’s life. Almost all of us take part in this activity at least once in lifetime, so many people do this on daily basis. And why not, it is so much fun and reliving activity, something this melts your anger instantly towards a person who insulted you or made you feel ashamed.

Gossip means taking about a person in their absence. There are two categories of gossips. The positive once where the information or talk about a person is true and majority of people believe that and the negative once where the information been talked is not likely to be true and that’s your own opinion with having almost zero similarity with reality.

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Whereas rumor is information you came to know about after passing through multiple people and they have also creatively added something from their own genius mind and you are responsible to continue the chain now. Taking part in such activities may get you in huge troublesome situation.

Here is the list of some bad consequences of gossiping and spreading rumors.


TRUST ISSUES-

If you gossip about a person in front of other, those people will think that you might be gossiping about them in their absence. Although this doubt may or may not be true but they will never wholehearted trust you. They will have trust issues with you obviously. Having no people around who completely trust you is a depressing statement, Isn’t it? To gain the trust of those you remain surrounded by, is not an easy job. First and foremost you will have to leave the habit of gossiping. You find doing that. Instead try to shift to another topic.

A BAD CHOICE, EVEN TO WASTE TIME ON-

If you engage in or initiate the activity of talking bad about someone in their absence, you won’t get any profit. Rather I personally think that if you have made your mind to waste your time, gossiping and spreading rumors is still a bad choice. If you think that talking bad about someone will make them a villain and you will become a hero, and you will set a good image and people will appreciate you, then there is something seriously wrong with your thought process.


MULTIPLER OF HATERS-

It is a quite popular statement that don’t trust even your shadow, cause move in darkness it leaves you. If you are gossiping and spreading rumors about someone’s, and that person comes to know about your this act, they will start hating you for sure. So, such activities create haters rather than destroying them. Be highly specific with your words, the people whom you are talking to and what about.


FEELING OF GUILT AND REGRET-

When you involve in the process of gossiping and spreading rumors initiating you are aware of your words and what you are talking about but then there is so much fun that you may tell few sentences or words in the future. I myself have took part in this activity so often in my school days that when rewind those things, I highly regret that. Because that was something different from my personality and I’m not that kind of person. But now I stay away from those groups who take part in such activities.


DESTROY’S SOMEONE’S REPUTATION-

There are so many people in the world who speak bad about some people who are pure hearted, just for fun or passing time. When such people come to know about the rumors others have spread about them they loss their self-esteem. Because it has not broken their heart instead the reputation they have built through a lot of hard work for a number of consecutive years. Such people can also convert from good into bad as they feel highly insulted without doing something ashaming, and they don’t deserve that.

GOSSIPING AND SPREADING RUMORS IS CONTAGIOUS-

Yes, you heard that right. Gossiping and spreading rumors is a contagious habit and increase with time. No matter initially how small it may be, suddenly you will waste your whole time in such activities without even noticing it. You are indirectly influencing others around you to take part in gossips and people often do it in order to not feel left out or your offender. Your brain suggests you to take part in every discussion in the group to feel like an active and important member.

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